our service soiree complete

On Saturday, our dining room was converted into a Valentine factory.

In case you missed the planning post, we invited friends to casually drop in on Saturday evening to make homemade Valentines, mingle,and enjoy dessert and champagne. All the Valentines will be taken to a local children's home and women's emergency shelter.

About 16 people "dropped in" to contribute.

To set up, we completely covered the dining room table with newspaper and taped it down with painter's tape, hung Valentines on a twine "garland" in the window to dry, and spread the supplies down the center of the table for easy access.

Our list of recipients included lots of women and little girls-- definitely the easiest gender to create Valentines for. You just have to pursue one of these goals: pretty, colorful, dainty, sparkly.

But the elementary-high school boys on the list were a little more challenging.

For those, we ended up pulling from history, nature, and sports magazines (one of our neighbor's ideas). We tried to glue fun facts and short articles into their Valentines. The Smithsonians' monthly feature on "This Month in History" provided a lot of concise fun-fact fillers.

After everyone left, Husband and I sat flipping through the Valentines. The two pewter buckets that started the evening stark empty were brimming with over 100 homemade messages for lonely, neglected individuals we will likely never meet. Each of these cards will go to someone no different in biological makeup than ourselves but whose life has unfolded so differently. I hope these cards can bring them joy, even if just a little.

As we sat considering the profound implications of having new friends (people we've known for less than a year) respond so openly and joyfully to such a bizarre invitation simply because they want to help whenever the opportunity arises, we felt the full impact of the words, 

Our cups [or pewter buckets] runneth over
with goodness and joy and all the blessings of fellowship and service.

Thank you to everyone who helped Share the Love for this project! It was fun, productive, and altogether sweet ;)

Now, if only I could stop eating these leftover sweets for breakfast, lunch, and dinner...

For the dessert table, we served:

Lemon-Cream Sandwich Cookies

Dark Chocolate-Raspberry Cake Balls (recipe to come)

and Red Velvet Cheesecake Squares

a service soiree

(Image via Everyday Musings' Dinner Party )



We're having a party on Saturday, and part of the preparation includes calling local shelters and children's homes.

Guests have been invited to casually drop in for a visit. We'll have dessert, champagne, and a spread of paper, fabric, string, and glue for making homemade Valentines.

There are countless options for this sort of party. The tone can be kid-friendly and casual or fetching and elegant .

It could include:

-your immediate household (like a family night activity)

-your children and their friends

-your coworkers
-your book club

-your neighbors

-one or two other couples or families

-or a gathering of a dozen or more people filtering through

If you'd like to join me in this, simply:

-call one or more local children's services, shelters, hospitals, or nursing homes to find out how many Valentines they will need and when they would like them dropped off

-pick a few simple desserts to display on a buffet table

-mix up a pitcher of red punch or just serve champagne with frozen raspberries floating on top

-gather together lots of paper, doilies, glue, and scissors
-Cover your dining room table with newspaper, lay out the supplies, hang some bunting, and play old-time jazz music
-Invite people to drop in between a specified time (such as Saturday between 5 and 10 p.m.)

The point is to bring people together to make pretty, handmade Valentines for those who are lonely or down.

If you want to help but don't want to throw your own party,

email me at scatteringlupinesblog@gmail.com.

We'll talk about how you can simply make a Valentine (or ten!) and mail them to me.